Sad Lawns

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The city or suburban lawn, although a delightful play place for pets and little people, is controversial -particularly in its water usage and run-off:

  • The California city of Santa Cruz offers a lawn removal rebate to encourage water conservation.
  • The US Geological Survey and others are studying how lawn fertilizer run-off may damage lakes.

Our family has been decreasing the size of our three areas of grass and creating drought-resistent gardens in their place.

John and I go for daily walks around our San Jose neighborhood of Willow Glen and naturally notice what our fellow-gardeners are doing. As we approach Easter, we now see the results of both fortunate and ill-advised Winter gardening efforts. As patchy as our back lawn is from enthusiastic dog wallowing, at least it is not the saddest lawn around!  Some neighborhood notables:

Zebra-lawn (from uneven fertilizer distribution):
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Dandelion crop (too long between weeding):
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Bowling lanes (from mowing when wet):
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Dirt (work in progress?):
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Women in the Global Economy: Leading Social Change

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Trish Tierney (Executive Director of the Institute of International Education in San Francisco) is the editor of a new IIE-published book called Women in the Global Economy: Leading Social Change. Many of the TechWomen mentors and program staff joined Trish with authors Nuket Kardam and Fredric Kopp (both from the Monterey Institute of International Studies) and social media expert Beth Kanter, to celebrate last night at IIE’s penthouse offices near the Lion Gate entrance to Chinatown.

My husband and I enjoyed hearing the authors speak about the book, seeing our IIE and 2011-2012 TechWomen colleagues and friends, discussing plans for the upcoming TechWomen-2013 program (selection of mentees from the Middle East and Africa is going on now), what I am doing at MentorCloud and John’s new job at EVault, and answering questions from potential TechWomen mentors. The rooftop view at sunset is lovely! Mimi Hills and my husband won the door prizes – a copy of the new book in an handmade bag. I look forward to reading it.

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Pre-Easter (aka Lent)

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We are getting ready for our annual family Easter Egg Hunt here in Willow Glen (San Jose, California): tidying the garden, coordinating schedules with guests and family, thinking about menus and decorations. This Lent (the forty days before Easter), I am also enjoying the unique Episcopal devotion called Lent Madness:

Lent Madness 2012 . Lent Madness began in 2010 as the brainchild of the Rev. Tim Schenck. In seeking a fun, engaging way for people to learn about the men and women comprising the Church’s Calendar of Saints, Tim came up with this unique Lenten devotion. Combining his love of sports with his passion for the lives of the saints, Lent Madness was born on his blog “Clergy Family Confidential.”

The format is straightforward: 32 saints are placed into a tournament-like single elimination bracket. Each pairing remains open for a set period of time and people vote for their favorite saint. 16 saints make it to the Round of the Saintly Sixteen; eight advance to the Round of the Elate Eight; four make it to the Faithful Four; two to the Championship; and the winner is awarded the coveted Golden Halo. The first round consists of basic biographical information about each of the 32 saints. Things get a bit more interesting in the subsequent rounds as we offer quotes and quirks, explore legends, and even move into the area of saintly kitsch.

Today’s contest is “Hilda of Whitby vs. Harriet Tubman“. It sounds silly and it is (but I am also learning more than I ever knew about the inspiring lives of 32 men and women who have given their lives to the service of God).

My flowers in full bloom for Easter:

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TechWomen Mentors Lunch

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16 TechWomen 2011-2012 mentors (and potential-2013 mentors) gathered at my house in San Jose California last weekend for a potluck lunch and to hear Conference Chair Taghrid Samak tell us about EgyptNEGMA (Entrepreneurship for Development in Egypt – to be held next week at MIT).  One of our own TechWomen mentees, Heba Hosny, is an EgyptNEGMA-2013 finalist. My guests enjoyed the new porch and a tour of WP668 – the backyard caboose where I have my office.  Three had also been mentors in my SEED mentoring program at Sun Microsystems.  It was such a pleasure to be able to host this remarkably talented and energetic group of technical women!

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Shakespeare Reading Group – Update

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Since the St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (Saratoga, California) Shakespeare Reading Group started meeting in 2012, we have read:

Last night was Antony and Cleopatra. I had great fun as the ambitious and deadly Octavius Ceasar (whom Rome later called the Emperor Augustus). John read Domitius Enobarbus (who gets most of the famous lines in this play) with delightful energy. Melita Thorpe was the subtle Egyptian Queen Cleopatra, and John Watson-Williams read Antony (Marcus Antonius, Consul and Triumvir) with verve.  All of the other major characters had great fun dying dramatically – it being a tragedy after all.

As is true for many Silicon Valley social events, the professional backgrounds around our table were highly varied. In addition to the expected high-tech gurus and computer company executives, our cast included among others, a church Deacon, mortgage expert, haematologist, astronomy travel director, social worker, physiology professor, technical writer, video director, artist, and physical therapist – all of who enjoyed an evening with The Bard. We will read Othello in May.

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Sacred Threads Embroidery – Chairs

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Yesterday, the Sacred Threads group at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (Saratoga, California) displayed the first two of the chair seats they are replacing – which look very good! I wrote about the Sacred Threads embroidery ministry last year when they finished a set of beautiful kneelers for the sanctuary.

The current project is more ambitious: re-covering the many dozen chairs in both St. Andrew’s chapels. The original 50-year-old chairs were caned – but those seats are falling apart. After research, Sacred Threads group leaders found it would cost about US$300/chair to re-cane (lasts about 50 years) but only about US$250/chair to replace the old cane seats with embroidery (lasts about 200 years).  Caning has to be done professionally but church members can embroider once the materials are purchased.  This was an easy decision!  The new chair seat designs are inspired by the stained glass church windows by Mark Adams.

October 2012 – chair project presentation:
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Original chairs:
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Mentor Certification: Knowledge, Skills, Attitudes

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Last weekend, I completed my second mentor certification class (1st re-certification) by The University of the South – School of Theology, Education for Ministry (EfM) program.  It was an honor and pleasure to work with an inspired, generous, and talented group.  I value this structured and carefully managed program – not the least because I have the opportunity to improve through specific feedback and advice from other experienced mentors.

About EfM:

EfM is a unique certificate program of experiential theological education for laity under the direction of The School of Theology – University of the South. Since its founding in 1975, this international program has assisted more than 30,000 students in discovering how to respond to the call of Christian service. EfM helps students encounter the breadth and depth of the Christian tradition and bring it into conversation with their experiences of the world as they study, worship, and engage in theological reflection together.

EfM mentor certification requires 18 hours of training and observed interactions every 18 months.  EfM groups can meet either in-person (as does our group at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California) or on-line. Here is an excerpt from the “Knowledge, Skills and Attitudes Expected of Mentors” document which guides the training and evaluation of EfM mentors:

Mentoring is an art.  The following list of competencies are like “paints and brushes” that allow the art to flourish.  These basic competencies help mentors and trainers to discern and evaluate mentor effectiveness.

Each mentor is rated by the mentor trainer in each competency as “not observed” or “needs improvement” or “proficient”.

Knowledge:

  • familiarity with the variety of voices within the Christian tradition
  • know the purpose of EfM and the components of an EfM seminar
  • know the theories and model of theological reflection in EfM:
    • four sources (action, tradition, culture, position)
    • four “movements” (identify, explore, connect, apply)
    • perspective questions (creation, sin, judgment, repentance, redemption)
  • know how to recruit, register, start, and maintain a group

Skills:

  • framing questions
  • facilitating reflection
  • sharing leadership
  • planning and managing the seminar
  • managing energy
  • listening
  • communicating clearly

Attitudes:

  • openness to growth
  • invitation
    • empowerment
    • valuing participation
  • encouragement
  • respect for human and theological differences
  • comfort with ambiguity
  • willingness to receive and give feedback
  • willingness to transmit EfM

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