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Flying Pigs

You may have read my
Finch Fest
blog entry on 7 September 2008 about our new bird feeder.
It has been such a popular item that our San Jose yard is even more full
of birds than usual. We now call our tiny visitors “flying pigs” since
they can go through an entire tube of black thistle seed in three days.
In the Winter, their colors are mostly brown to green. John took
some photos today of our piggies in their brighter Spring colors.
Most today seem to be

American Goldfinches
but we get other finch varieties as well.

In addition to the finches, we have many much larger birds:
two noisy pairs of
Canada Geese,
two pairs of
Mallard ducks
, two pairs of

Mourning doves
, and others enjoying our location on the

Guadalupe River
.

American Goldfinches San Jose California
photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher American Goldfinches San Jose California
photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher American Goldfinches San Jose California
photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher American Goldfinches San Jose California
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John Plocher

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Birthday Flowers

My husband
John Plocher
hates to shop but he does have three favorite stores:

    • Micro Center
      computer and electronics store chain
    • The Train Shop (1829 Pruneridge Avenue, Santa Clara, CA 95050,
      (408) 296-1050) model train shop
    • Williams-Sonoma
      cooking store chain

For his recent birthday, I took John to Williams-Sonoma at the
Stanford Shopping Center to pick out
his present. The Stanford outdoor mall has a lovely and innovative flower display
year-round but the Spring flowers are particularly gorgeous. Some of the
colors glow so brilliantly, they do not look real.

John held still for pictures because he was on the phone with our daughter Jessica,
sorting out Poetry and Prose Performances Project (“P4”) computer questions. Jessica is recording
literary classics for P4 on YouTube.

John and Paul

John Plocher and Paul Dickinson Goodman at Stanford Shopping Center California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
Flowers at Stanford

flowers Stanford Shopping Center California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
Flowers at Stanford

flowers Stanford Shopping Center California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
John and Katy

Katy Dickinson and John Plocher at Stanford Shopping Center California
photo: copyright 2009 Paul Dickinson Goodman
flowers Stanford Shopping Center California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson flowers Stanford Shopping Center California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson flowers Stanford Shopping Center California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson flowers Stanford Shopping Center California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Images Copyright 2009 by Katy Dickinson and Paul Dickinson Goodman

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What Happens After College? (Geeks and the Silicon Valley)

15 March 2010: More on this topic is in the blog entry “Transitions for Young Adults with Neurocognitive Deficits

On Saturday, 4 April 2009, I am giving a talk in Lafayette, California, called “What Happens After College? – Kids with Neurocognitive Disability Working in
Engineering and Computing”
at the Orion Academy 3rd Annual Seminar on Post-Secondary Transition Planning for Young Adults with Aspergers, NLD and other Neurocognitive Deficits.

I put together this presentation based on information and advice from many sources as well as from my own experience as the parent of a 16-year-old son with social-cognitive disability. I had particular fun creating the “Geeks and the Silicon Valley” section of the talk. I included my favorite quote from
Larry Wall (creator of Perl): “Most of you are familiar with the virtues of a programmer. There are three, of course: laziness, impatience, and hubris” plus an xkcd cartoon, pictures of tshirts (“You read my t-shirt. That’s enough social interaction for one day.”) from Think Geek and the xkcd store, and other geeky stuff.

The second part of the talk covers what counts in finding a job in the Silicon Valley (Recommendations, Academics, Experience, Being Fast), how to get experience before getting a job (Open Source, Internships, Volunteer Projects, College Jobs), and other essential knowledge. I make several references to The Unwritten Laws of Engineering (Revised and Updated, 2001) by James Skakoon and W.J. King, available from the ASME product catalog. My last quote is
from Ivan Sutherland in his 1996  Technology and Courage (Sun Labs Perspectives-96-1):

“I, for one, am and will always be a practicing technologist.
When denied my minimum daily adult dose of technology, I
get grouchy. I believe that technology is fun, especially when
computers are involved, a sort of grand game or puzzle with
ever so neat parts to fit together… If the technology you do
isn’t fun for you, you may wish to seek other employment.
Without the fun, none of us would go on.”

You can  review my presentation online, or you can attend the event to hear it in person!

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Headache Update

Two weeks ago, my 16-year-old son Paul started attending regular school at
Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital.
That is, he was in class for a week then last week was Spring Break.
He starts up again tomorrow. The Hospital School offers two two-hour
sessions a day, morning and afternoon. They have one room for grade school
and another for Junior High and High School. Kids who are not able to go to
the classrooms get hospital room visits by the teachers. Tuesday afternoons, Paul
goes to OT (Occupational Therapy) and PT (Physical Therapy). Paul likes the
Hospital School but misses his friends and regular High School classes.

Paul still has bad headaches and falls down from dizziness several times a day.
He feels dizzy if he walks very far.
The pain is also effecting his memory. Pain is very subjective but I can tell
Paul is in pain when he stops interacting and starts to hunch over. About an
hour after he takes Tylenol (acetaminophen), he opens up, moves more
freely – laughs and talks comfortably. Friday, we start work with the
Pain Management Clinic
at LCPH. I hope they will be able to offer
some help or at least a new perspective on the problem. I hope that this is
not one of those problems that Paul just has to grow out of.

The quote on the Hospital School hallway sign offers an image of hope for the
future: “A gymnast in the air, the graceful gull swoops and glides along the
coastal waters.”

LPCH school sign

Lucile Packard Children's Hospital school sign
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
LPCH hallway art

Garth Williams watercolor painting Charlotte's Web Lucile Packard Children's Hospital
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
LPCH garden

Lucile Packard Children's Hospital garden
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
LPCH garden iris

Lucile Packard Children's Hospital garden iris
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Images Copyright 2009 by Katy Dickinson

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Headache Update

My 16-year-old son Paul still has constant bad headaches and dizziness.
We are using relaxation techniques and
Tylenol (acetaminophen)
to control the pain somewhat. We started Paul this week on
Pediatric Occupational Therapy and we have an appointment next month to start work
with the
Pain Management Clinic
at
Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital
. Paul will attend the Packard
Hospital School starting next week – approval just came through for
that. So, he does not have to miss out on the second half of his Junior Year
in High School entirely. Your prayers are always welcome.

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Daughter in Qatar

My daughter Jessica (a Sophomore studying Political Science, Computer Science, and Music at CMU – Carnegie Mellon University – in Pittsburgh, PA) is spending her Spring Break this week at the CMU campus in Doha, Qatar. Jessica calls the campus CMU-Q. For those who are geographically challenged, like me, Qatar is east of Saudi Arabia and south of Iran. You can follow her interesting cultural adventures on her blog http://feelingelephants.wordpress.com/

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Another Headache Update

We have been doing the rounds of doctors (neurosurgeon, neurologist,
pediatrician) recently to see what may help my 16-year-old son Paul’s
headaches and dizziness. The neurosurgeon seems clear that the mass in
Paul’s brain is not causing the problem. He has given us several official names for
that kind of mass. The summary is that it is an area of differently
configured cells which are not cancerous or infected. That is, the headaches
are not caused by cancer, infection, or an autoimmune process (thank God!).

We have tried many different medications – some by prescription and some over
the counter. Some drugs worked better than others but none got rid of the problem.
Our next step is to try biofeedback and related techniques to see how much of
the problem is stress-based. We have an appointment next month with the
Pain Management Clinic
at
Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital
. We are also working with Paul’s school to
see how Paul can continue his Junior year in High School despite falling down
regularly and having bad headaches.

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