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Good Free Games

I have been concerned to watch the Studio 17 kids at Santa Maria Urban Ministry playing mindless smash-and-blood or doll-dress-up games during their after homework computer time. I have started a list of “Good Free Games” as alternative suggestions. Studio 17 will also be buying some games (like Zoo Tycoon and Crayon Physics) soon.

I asked my 16-year-old son Paul to research and recommend Good Free Games which were fun to play but also educational. Some of these require flash software (will not work on an iPad) and all have advertisements to wait through (that’s why they are free). I added to Paul’s list games recommended by other sources. This afternoon, Studio 17 tried out about half of the games listed here and had a very good time. Additional suggestions are welcome!

I am adding to this list as we find more games, see More Good Free Games – or do a web search for “Good Free Games”.

16 February 2014 – links updated

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Refugee Flowers in Bloom

Last winter, my kids saved a large number of
German Iris
rhizomes, plus three roses. The plants were in the garden of a
house which was being leveled. Jessica and Paul did not want the
flowers destroyed along with the house. Amid much mud, we dug up as
many as we could, brought them home, and planted them in our San
Jose back yard. The refugees not only survived their journey
but all are now in bloom. One rose had a tag (Sonia) and one
looks and smells just like a rose I already have (Chrysler Imperial)
but the smaller red rose is a mystery.

White

German Iris

White German Iris
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
Chrysler Imperial (probably)

Hybrid Tea Rose

Chrysler Imperial, probably, red Hybrid Tea Rose
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
Sonia

Hybrid Tea Rose

Sonia, probably, Hybrid Tea Rose
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
unknown name

red rose

unknown name red rose
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

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John in the Paper

My husband John Plocher
was quoted in the newspaper today!

The
Mercury News
published the article:


      Silicon Valley unemployment rate jumps to record 11%


      By Pete Carey

      Posted: 04/17/2009 10:32:21 AM PDT

      “Silicon Valley’s unemployment rate jumped to a record 11 percent last month, and more than 100,000 people are now unemployed and looking for work in the area, the state reported Friday. The question now is how many more will join them before the recession ends….

      It can’t happen soon enough for John Plocher, a 47-year-old software engineer who was laid off from struggling Sun Microsystems in November after about 20 years with the company. ‘It’s just staggering how many people are out there looking,’ he said Friday.

      Job-loss shock

      ‘All the big companies seem to be shedding,’ Plocher said. At regular lunch meetings of his networking group, ‘I just look at their name tags: ‘I used to work at…’ and it’s all the big names in the valley.’

      Plocher, who has a son in high school and daughter in college, said socializing and networking are important, especially to get over the first shock of losing a job. ‘The first month was really, really hard.'”

Some of the resources which have been of most help to John in his job hunt:

    • There is a networking and lunch group in Cupertino, California,
      called CSix where job hunters share ideas
      and leads.
    • The book What Color Is Your
      Parachute?
      by Richard Nelson Bolles is excellent. This book is available in
      many languages (French, Korean, Russian, Turkish…). Also check out the
      resources on Dick Bolles’ web site:
      JobHuntersBible.Com
    • LinkedIn – a social networking
      web site for professionals who want to extend their contacts.
    • For more, see my
      January 15, 2009
      blog post.

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New Walks of Old Brick

The prior owner of our 1930 home in Willow Glen (San Jose, CA) passed on to us a large number of bricks and garden stones which I have been using for the last ten years in my landscaping. Most of the bricks are very old and worn, some are half-melted clinkers, others are still new-looking with crisp corners.  Several years ago, when we replaced the old leaky swimming pool with WP668, our 1916 backyard caboose, we had to take up several long brick walkways. Since then, we have been re-using the bricks in new walks. Some of the original walkways are in the Jack-on-Jack (or Stacked Bond) pattern, others are in a Basket Weave classic brick pattern.

To get ready for our annual Easter egg hunt and garden party, we installed several new walkways using old bricks. The new walks went in places where the walking surface was uneven or hard to roll a cart or wheelbarrow over. In the new walks, we used both Jack-on-Jack and Basket Weave patterns to match what was already there. Most are set in sand on top of weed cloth with wood borders. On one high-traffic section, we used concrete borders and mortar. Even though it took a week of work and what we have now is very different from what was there before, none of our thirty party guests noticed the change. The advantage of using old bricks in new walks is that if you are careful, they look like they have always been there.

2006 – Removing Pool and Bricks
2006 - Removing Pool and Bricks, San Jose California, photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
. April 2009 – installation
April 2009 - new brick walk installation, San Jose California, photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
April 2009 – new walk finished
April 2009 - new brick walk finished, San Jose California, photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
. another new walk
April 2009 - new brick walk finished, San Jose California, photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
Daniel at work
Daniel at work, San Jose California, photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson
. Daniel and WP668
Daniel and WP668 caboose, San Jose California, photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

WP668 Caboose, April 2009
WP668 Caboose, April 2009, San Jose California, photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

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$163,613

If you have read my blog since January, you may know that my 16-year-old son Paul has recently developed chronic and debilitating headaches and dizziness.  Despite the capable and dedicated care of Pediatricians, Neurologists, Neurosurgeons, Pain Specialists, Psychologists and Psychiatrists, Occupational and Physical Therapists, and Nurse practitioners, Paul’s situation is stable but not improving. We continue to work with the Pain Management Clinic at Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital (LPCH). Paul is still attending the Hospital School at LPCH, so he will not have to repeat his Junior Year in High School. Thanks for your prayers and good wishes – they have been been a great support and blessing to our family.

This blog entry is about the financial side of this experience. I am not pointing my Finger of Blame at one organization or another as being Bad. I think that in general America’s medical care is excellent. But I am presenting a specific example of how very broken the financial side of America’s health system is.

When Paul first went into the hospital, we did not consider the financial side. We approved the recommended treatments and stayed focused on supporting Paul and each other. Over the months, this situation has evolved from a crisis into a new schedule: six sets of pills a day, drop off and pick up at doctors’ offices – hospital – school, walks and stretches and massage, time in the sun, and of course regular homework and chores. Almost every day, we receive medical bills or insurance Explanations of Benefits.

Explanations of Benefits are cryptic and offer a very narrow view of a small set of medical charges. The first bill which gave us any overview of what our medical adventure cost was the hospital bill for Paul’s brain surgery, for $163,613.70.

Statement Date: 03/02/2009
Service Date(s): 02/05/2009 – 02/09/2009
Total Charges $163,613.70
Patient Payments $0.00
Insurance Payments -$25,921.32
Insurance Adjustments -$136,324.50
Other Adjustments $0.00
Balance Due Upon Receipt $1,367.88

When I reviewed the statement, I was equally amazed at the total price and the 83% insurance adjustment. I know if I did not have a good job which includes health insurance, I would not be eligible for either the $25,921.32 insurance payment or the $136,324.50 discount. I would have to pay $163,613.70. Please understand, with my husband still looking for work, I am quite happy to pay only $1,367.88 for Paul’s brain surgery. However, I know there are growing numbers of people who have no job and little or no health insurance such as mine. It feels very wrong that the privileged pay the least.

Paul-Hospital SchoolPaul at LCPH Hospital School, Palo Alto CA<br /> photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson Topiary ElephantLPCH Topiary Elephant, Palo Alto CA<br /> photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson LPCH GiraffeLPCH Topiary Giraffe, Palo Alto CA<br /> photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson LPCH Daffodils and PansiesLPCH Daffodils and Pansies, Palo Alto CA<br /> photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher

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Holy Week, Passover, Egg Hunt

Last week was Holy Week for the Episcopal Church, ending the Christian season Lent with the celebration of Jesus’ resurrection on Easter Sunday. 2009 was one of those rare calendar years when the Jewish Passover celebration coincided with Holy Week. So, St. Andrew’s celebration of the
Last Supper or seder on Maundy Thursday actually took place on Passover.

Our family was in church on Palm Sunday, Maundy Thursday, and on Saturday night for the Easter Vigil. John and I both read Genesis passages during the mostly-candlelit Easter Vigil. He read the story of
Noah’s ark and I read about the Sacrifice of Isaac. There were five baptisms, wonderful music, and lovely flowers.

However, Easter morning itself was dedicated to a private celebration of Spring’s renewal of life: our family Easter Egg Hunt. We worked on the garden for weeks in preparation. We hosted ten happy children, plus twenty adults for our annual egg hunt and
garden party.

The Easter Bunny hid over 150 eggs, including the gold and silver
eggs for adults. The Bunny leaves two poems as the only clues:

Gold Egg Poem

You can’t see me even a bit,

But I can see little birds fly.

On the uppermost tier I sit

Hard earth protects me ‘though I’m high.

Silver Egg Poem

Dark and dirty, I’m down low,

Between the sleepers to be found.

Don’t hit your head or hit your toe,

Be careful looking for my mound!

The silver egg was under WP668, our backyard caboose (in the ballast). It was found quickly. However, the gold egg took hours to locate: it was under a flowerpot sitting on the retaining wall. I traded big chocolate bunnies for the gold and silver eggs to the two children who found them. They were delighted with the prizes (and to have found the eggs intended for the grownups!).

Palm Sunday

Palm Sunday Service, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Palm Sunday Procession

Palm Sunday Procession, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Palm Sunday Altar

Palm Sunday Altar, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Joyous Haggadah

Joyous Illuminated Haggadah photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Parts of our seder

Parts of our seder, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Maundy Thursday

Maundy Thursday seder meal booklet, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Easter Vigil Baptisms

Easter Vigil Baptisms, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher

Cross over altar

Cross over altar, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Easter flowers

Easter flowers, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Floral Golgotha

Golgotha with Flowers, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, Saratoga, California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Gold and Siver Easter Eggs

Gold and Siver Easter Eggs photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Easter Bunny with Eggs in a Basket

Easter Bunny with Eggs in a Basket photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Flowering Jasmine

Flowering Jasmine, San Jose California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

WP668 Caboose

WP668 Caboose, San Jose California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

California Poppy

California Poppy, San Jose California photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Images Copyright 2009 by John Plocher and Katy Dickinson

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Flying Pigs

You may have read my
Finch Fest
blog entry on 7 September 2008 about our new bird feeder.
It has been such a popular item that our San Jose yard is even more full
of birds than usual. We now call our tiny visitors “flying pigs” since
they can go through an entire tube of black thistle seed in three days.
In the Winter, their colors are mostly brown to green. John took
some photos today of our piggies in their brighter Spring colors.
Most today seem to be

American Goldfinches
but we get other finch varieties as well.

In addition to the finches, we have many much larger birds:
two noisy pairs of
Canada Geese,
two pairs of
Mallard ducks
, two pairs of

Mourning doves
, and others enjoying our location on the

Guadalupe River
.

American Goldfinches San Jose California
photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher American Goldfinches San Jose California
photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher American Goldfinches San Jose California
photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher American Goldfinches San Jose California
photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher American Goldfinches San Jose California
photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher

Images Copyright 2009 by
John Plocher

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