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Thinking Inside the Box: Medicare

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In the last few weeks, I have been on the phone many dozens of times trying to sort out my 81-year-old mother’s health insurance. When she moved 52 miles, from San Francisco to live with us in San Jose, California, my mother had to change doctors and insurance coverage. As I understand it, the Medicare rules provide for a 30 mile radius around your home address for allowed health providers (except in emergencies and special circumstances). Getting her address and coverage transferred turned out to be very complex, so much so that my mother asked me for help in sorting out the mess.

Shortly after my father’s death in November 2011, my mother moved in with us. She thought she followed the rules and notified the right people of the move but soon started receiving NOTICE OF DENIAL OF PAYMENT letters from her health insurance company. Because she no longer permanently resided in the coverage area, she was disenrolled in her Medicare program and her doctor bills went unpaid.

Since then, I have talked with many staff members at my mother’s Medicare supplement insurance (“Medigap”) provider, sometimes several times a day. Some have been officious and bureaucratic, others have been thoughtful, supportive, and energetically helpful. In the past few weeks, we have managed to get her insurance reinstated and we are now discussing the effective date for coverage in our area. My mother gets letters almost every day giving complex and sometimes conflicting information. For example, on 10 February, there were two letters: one confirming disenrollment and the other confirming receipt of enrollment papers. Yesterday, there was an unsolicited 12″ x 9-1/2″ x 4-1/2″ box full of paper: instructions, lists, and rules documents. In my Silicon Valley world, these kind of documents only exist in electronic form.

In 2009, I wrote about my son’s $163,613 hospital bill as a specific example of how very broken the financial side of America’s health system is. My mother’s Medicare rules box and associated correspondence, which would mystify anybody even if they were good at paperwork and in excellent health (not the target audience for this material), seems to be another great example of a sadly broken system.

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Silicon Valley Supports Technical Women

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In the last week, I have been to three interesting events supporting technical women and girls here in the Silicon Valley:

It feels good to have strong support from such a wide variety of organizations for women in technology.

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Images by Katy Dickinson 2012 Copyright

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Clearing House in San Francisco

Before the move:
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After the move:
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We have almost entirely filled up a third storage space in San Jose with my mother’s stuff as we clear her San Francisco house for sale.  I spent two days with a crew of 6 movers who shuffled boxes and furniture into and out of a moving van. The attic is empty and the top two floors are cleared and swept. We would have finished entirely but the van was too full. One more half-day of moving, then we can sweep out the bottom floor.

Thanks to our generous and loving friends, the toxics (mostly paint and old medicine) have been taken to appropriate disposal sites.  The house plants have all been adopted out.  My brother is visiting next weekend and will collect some outside potted plants and garden ornaments.  We hope the 1878 Victorian house in Pacific Heights will be on the market in two weeks. What a big job this has been!

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Images by Katy Dickinson Copyright 2012

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Past and Future Homes

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Saturday, John, my mother, and I spent another day of sorting and packing my parents’ San Francisco home. As my daughter Jessica wrote, this is about Dirt, Dust, and Duty. I shipped five boxes of my father’s clothes to my older brother, put five more boxes of family quilts, lace, and linens into the car, then packed in two small tables, two mirrors, some art, and a shower chair. Everything but the shower chair goes into storage. My uncle came over to pack some of his stuff. Then I did a walk through with the mover in preparation for his crew returning next weekend.

Today was my day off. After church, I worked in my poor neglected and dog-pounded garden. Then, John and Paul and I spent several hours reviewing the construction proposal for the new addition to our home in Willow Glen. Comparing the proposal to the architect’s drawings, we discussed flooring, counter tops, lighting, electrical outlets, TV cables, and all of the other minutiae which are so expensive if you don’t get them right the first time.

Our house addition will initially be for my 80-year-old mother, so we are making it wheelchair accessible, just in case. This means more than just a roll-in shower and wider doorways. Can she get into the pantry? Should the doors open in or out? So much to consider!

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Wade’s Obituary

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My wonderful daughter Jessica took on the task of getting the obituary of her grandfather, Wade Dickinson, published after his death in November. She worked on this for weeks.* It turns out that there are few obituaries considered news: most are paid for by the family. After much research, we chose to publish my father’s obituary in two newspapers:

Even though we mostly communicate electronically  here in the Silicon Valley, it was important to my mother to see his obituary published in the paper.  Publishing an obituary is very expensive.  Newspapers seem to consider grieving families fair game and charge as much as they can.  This pair cost $132 and $450 respectively for a one-time publication.  Even so, the Chronicle had to republish because they misprinted his name the first time.  The Herald version is longer because it cost less – the same text in the Chronicle would have cost over $1,000. The San Francisco text reads:

Ben Wade Oakes Dickinson died at the age of 85 in November 2011 at his home in San Francisco. Wade was born in 1926 in Hickory Township PA, to Ben Wade Orr Dickinson, Jr., and Gladys Grace Oakes Dickinson. He is survived by his wife, Eleanor, his brother and business partner of 50 years Wayne, his 3 children: Mark, Katy, and Peter, and 6 grandchildren: Jessica and Paul, Corey and Forrest, Lynda and Daniel. Wade was a West Point graduate, and Technical Advisor on Atomic Energy to the US Congress.  He taught Engineering entrepreneurship for 19 years at UC Berkeley, and was a lay leader at St. Mary the Virgin Episcopal Church. Wade’s first patent was granted in 1965 and his 39th in 2011.  His funeral was on 4 December 2011, in San Francisco.

Rest in peace.

1/13/2012 addition:
* One of the reasons it took so long to place these obits is because the family had to prove to each paper that Wade Dickinson is dead. Jessica just placed her grandfather’s third obituary with the Knoxville News Sentinel, the paper in my mother’s home town (where my parents met at a dance in 1951). The Knoxville News Sentinel required a copy of his certificate of death, plus a call to the mortuary, plus a call to the widow before accepting the obit placement. I understand that someone might try to place an obit as a joke and that fact checking is important but some sensitivity toward the mourning family is also appropriate.

1/18/2012 addition:
Thanks again to Jessica for all of her patience and work placing the obituaries in the SF Chronicle, Sharon Herald, and Knoxville News Sentinel. My uncle just called to say that a friend of my grandfather called him after seeing Wade’s obit.  My mother has been happy to get many letters of condolence from friends who saw the Chronicle last week.  Newspapers are still important, even in our social media world!

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Cat Wars

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My recently-widowed mother moved in with us in San Jose last month with her beloved young Siamese cats, Loki and Pouka. Our 16-year-old grey fuzzball, Tino, was not pleased with this development in his formerly-quiet life. Cat wars have ensued. With one brief interlude on Christmas Eve when we saw all three on a bed at one time, they have been glaring and growling (at best) and engaged in competitive carpet soiling and screaming fights (at worst). What fun.

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Images Copyright 2011 by Katy Dickinson and John Plocher

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Moving My Mother

Since my father’s death in November, we have been spending all spare time moving my 80-year-old artist mother to live with us in San Jose. Moving Eleanor Creekmore Dickinson and two cats and clothes and computer and TV were the easy part. Clearing the San Francisco Victorian house she lived in for 45 years is a more complex task. The house has two flights of stairs up to the main floor and another spiral staircase to the bedrooms. Even with four hefty movers, getting large fragile antiques safely out and into a truck was a challenge.

Last week, we completed the move for 70 years of my mother’s art into storage.  Today, we finally finished moving most of the big family furniture. The biggest chore was moving “General Burnside”, a huge armoire we named after that infamous Civil War general because my mother bought it from the house he occupied as his military headquarters. General Burnside was full of my mother’s collection of moonshine and other liquors plus the glassware to serve them. It took hours to empty and take apart for transport.

John and I are building an addition to our house for my mother but that will not be done for many months. Until then, she is staying in our spare bedroom in Willow Glen and we have a house sitter in San Francisco. The family furniture has for many years been divvied up between my brothers and me (using the distribution system I wrote about) but my mother will continue to use some of it during her lifetime.  Her art will be stored for the long-term but we expect that the furniture will be out and in use again within a year.  I will be so happy when this is all done!

Here is a drawing of what our new construction will look like, eventually:
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Moving General Burnside:
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Here is what our new storage unit looks like – with antiques gently packed in like puzzle pieces:

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Images Copyright 2011-2012 by Katy Dickinson

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