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Healing for Holy Land and Africa

The SAMA (St. Andrew’s Medical Assistance) auction and dinner will be held this Sunday, 22 February 2008. The fund raising event will be held at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church Hall, starting with a silent auction at 5 pm, followed by a Middle Eastern Feast and live auction.

Tickets are $30/adult – $15/child – $100/family (pay at the door)
All are welcome!

St. Andrew's Medical Assistance tile, 2007 photo: copyright 2008 Katy Dickinson Outreach programof
St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church

13601 Saratoga Ave. Saratoga, California 95070 USA

(408) 867-3493,
http://www.st-andrews-saratoga.org/

SAMA Programs

SAMA exists to provide hope and healing to a hurting world. SAMA raises support annually through the annual Middle Eastern Feast and Auction, Christmas Crafts sale, and other fund raisers.

Ongoing Medical Programs SAMA supports in the Holy Land include:

  • Ahli Arab Hospital (the only Christian hospital in Gaza)
  • The Four Homes of Mercy (a home for the severely disabled based in Jerusalem)

SAMA also supports health programs in Africa:

  • In 2008, SAMA supported St. Mary’s Hospital in Odibo, Namibia. St. Mary’s is an Anglican-supported hospital for which SAMA provided linens for 50 beds as well as funding expansion of their birth delivery room from one bed to two.
  • In 2008, SAMA also supported the Chiedza Clinic, in Harare, Zimbabwe. The clinic is part of the Chiezda child care center which serves perhaps 300 kids, many of whom are HIV positive, and their families.
  • As part of St. Andrew’s 50th anniversary celebration in 2007, SAMA raised
    almost $5,000 which (in conjunction with Episcopal Relief and Development) purchased 965 specially-treated mosquito nets to prevent malaria in Africa

Auction Catalog

Click HERE

      to see the draft (Feb 19) auction catalog (PDF format).

There may be some changes in the published catalog version.

22 February 2009 – Live Auction Items

WP668 with new Western Pacific herald photo: copyright 2008 Katy Dickinson Item # 2004 Caboose Brunch
– by John Plocher – Brunch for six in a private 1916 historic railroad caboose (Western Pacific Feather River Railway WP668) in
Willow Glen, San Jose.
1964 Special Selection Cabernet Sauvignon by Martini photo: copyright 2009 Eleanor Creekmore Dickinson and Patricia Martini Item # 2005 Wine – 1964 Treasure from Louis M. Martini
– Martini Family wine collection – 1964 Special Selection Cabernet Sauvignon. This was a very good year – well known for excellence.
1959 Private Reserve Cabernet Sauvignon by Martini photo: copyright 2009 Eleanor Creekmore Dickinson and Patricia Martini Item # 2006 Wine – 1959 Treasure from Louis M. Martini
– Martini Family wine collection – 1959 Private Reserve Cabernet Sauvignon. A sleeper year but now one of the best. Delicious!
Eleanor Creekmore Dickinson etching of Edward Hopper and Walter Hopps Rabbits photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson Item # 2007 Rabbit Etching by Eleanor Creekmore Dickinson
– Original delicate and realistic black and white etching of two rabbits by famous San Francisco artist Eleanor Creekmore Dickinson. “Edward Hopper and Walter Hopps” 1983 14″x17″ framed with glass.
flight over San Francisco Golden Gate Bridge photo: copyright 2008 Charles Jackson Item # 2008 Private Flight Plus Brunch
– Private flight plus lunch. Experienced Palo Alto pilot

Charles Jackson
of the
Shoreline Flying Club
will be your host for 2 hours in a 4 seat
Cessna 182 Skylane II. Want to tour the San Francisco Bay and see the
Golden Gate Bridge from the air? Here’s your chance!
SAMA - St. Andrew's Medical Assistance tile photo: copyright 2008 Katy Dickinson Item # 2010 Middle Eastern Dinner
– Middle Eastern Dinner for eight on a date after March 2009 that works for both cook and auction item winner.
Soquel Vineyards Partner's Reserve 2006 Cabernet Sauvignon photo: copyright 2009 John Plocher Item # 2012 Case of Wine – 2006 Soquel Vineyards Partner’s Reserve
– 2006 Soquel Vineyards Cabernet Sauvignon Partner’s Reserve case of wine (12 bottles) from the Garvey Family Vineyard in the Napa Valley
Exquisite Designer Necklace by Erin Mac photo: copyright 2009 Erin Mac Item # 2013 Exquisite Designer Necklace by
Erin Mac

– Necklace by Erin Mac who designs jewelry for the Hollywood Oscar event – Veridian Art Deco Venetian Master-Cut Briolette with an 18k White Gold and Diamond Enhancer on a Stainless Steel Cable with a 14k yellow gold lobster clasp. From the House of Erin MacGeraghty fine jewelry and watches.

Images Copyright 2008-2009 by Katy Dickinson, John Plocher, Charles Jackson, Eleanor Dickinson, Patricia Martini, Erin Mac

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EDD – Faceless Bureaucracy

My husband John was laid off two months ago and is now an “unclaimed treasure”
(that is, he is on a job hunt). To help pay the bills between jobs, John signed
up for the first time for
Unemployment Insurance
with the California Employment Development
Department
(EDD).

What is Unemployment Insurance in California?

      Unemployment Insurance (UI) is a nationwide program created to provide partial wage replacement to unemployed workers while they conduct an active search for new work. Unemployment Insurance (UI) is a federal-state program, based on federal law, but executed through state law. Employers finance the UI program by tax contributions. In California, the EDD administers the UI program according to guidelines established by the UI Code and the California Code of Regulations, Title 22.

      http://www.edd.ca.gov/Unemployment/

EDD appears to be a completely faceless bureaucracy. That is, there is no
person
to call, no place to go to resolve problems. There
is only a phone number. John had a problem with his EDD paperwork
(he received two contradictory UI mailings on the same day and made the wrong
choice) and needed to talk with someone. It took three days of fifty to 100 calls
per day to 800-300-5616 to get someone from EDD on the phone. He called before 8 am and
heard the “We are not here outside of the following hours” message roll immediately
over to the “We are currently receiving more calls than our system can handle. Please
try again later” message. He redialed all day and heard the “Please try again later”
message roll over to the “We are not here” message promptly at 5 pm daily.

Only an EDD person on the phone can help with a UI problem. There are

EDD offices
. EDD office staff only provide career and workforce services but
cannot resolve UI problems – they offer you a phone to call 800-300-5616.
Letters from the EDD feature a post office box address, no fax, no local number,
no names, only 800-300-5616 with alternate numbers for Spanish, Cantonese,
Mandarin, and Vietnamese.

Late yesterday afternoon, when John finally spoke with an EDD 800-300-5616
representative, the problem was sorted out promptly. The EDD woman scolded John
for his mistake but said since it was his first infraction, they would probably let it go
and not deny benefits. She went on to complain that there were so many callers
with all the people being unemployed that EDD was working nights, weekends, and
holidays. John gently pointed out that at least she had a job.

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Obama and Shakespeare

Listening to and later reading
President Obama’s
inaugural
speech
(20 January 2009), one phrase struck me as familiar:

      “We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished.”

I eventually remembered the words in Kate’s speech at the end of Shakespeare’s


The Taming of the Shrew
(Act 5, Scene 2, written around 1590):

      “Come, come, you froward and unable worms!

      My mind hath been as big as one of yours,

      My heart as great, my reason haply more,

      To bandy word for word and frown for frown…”

I don’t think Obama was scolding the way Kate is in her speech but
there is the same circumstance of reestablishing a basis for comparison
after much change. Obama has earned his reputation as a great speaker
and I look forward to hearing his addresses for many years to come.

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Remote Inauguration

We were very excited that Jessica, my 20-year-old daughter, attended this week’s Presidential inauguration in Washington, DC. You can see her blog entries and photos at  http://feelingelephants.wordpress.com/. Ours is a politically passionate family. One of my earliest memories was glee that my candidate (John F. Kennedy) won the presidential election over my older brother’s candidate (Barry Goldwater), in 1964.

Our family has always been split between liberal and conservative. The divergence of our current family politics is best shown in two objects: a framed picture of the late President Ronald Reagan that my father put up in the front hall of their San Francisco house (intended to be seen by everyone who came over for parties to phone Obama voters, hosted by my mother), and the shoe with BUSH –> in gold paint on the toe that someone gave my father for Christmas:

Bush Shoe photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

I was at work at Sun during Tuesday’s inaugural morning so I went over to the Menlo Park campus Crossroads conference room to watch history unfolding
live by CNN TV broadcast on the big screen. Because I usually get my news from National Public Radio (NPR), it was particularly interesting to see how the great and powerful look and interact:

    • Why did Jimmy and Roselyn Carter greet  George and Barbara Bush with a kiss for Barbara but then walk by  Bill and Hilary Clinton, who were right next to the Bushes, without a word?
    • The senior President Bush does not seem to be aging well. He sat next to Hilary Clinton and behind the new First Lady  Michelle Obama, so there were many pictures of him with his mouth open looking confused.
    • Hilary Clinton, on the other hand, looked radiant two days before her confirmation as our new Secretary of State.
    • It was fascinating to watch outgoing President George W. Bush during his last minutes in office. I saw Bush pat the leg of one of the tall Marines in full dress uniform as he walked past – like you would pat a friendly dog.

It was certainly a great day for San Francisco, with soon-to-be President Barack Obama walking into the ceremony right behind Senator Dianne Feinstein
and Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi. This is a welcome change from President G.W. Bush pretending that California did not exist. Having Dianne Feinstein serve as Chair of the Joint Congressional Committee on Inaugural Ceremonies meant that we got to see a great deal of her between speakers and events. We are so proud of her!

Except when greeting people, President Obama seemed grim during much of the event. The only time I caught a big smile was when he messed up his inaugural
oath (he had to take it again later). The biggest smile of the day, however, was that of cellist  Yo-Yo Ma who appeared delighted to be performing with violinist
Itzhak Perlman. There was much wondering how the instruments and musicians could play “Air and Simple Gifts” so well on that cold day. This was cleared up when it was  announced today that those on the inaugural stage heard the musicians live but a prior recording was broadcast for everyone else. However
real the broadcast, Ma’s smile and the superb music were a genuine delight.

CNN in Sun’s conference room

Inauguration on CNN in Sun's conference room photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Feinstein, Obama, Pelosi on CNN

Feinstein, Obama, Pelosi, inauguration CNN photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Obama taking the oath, CNN

Obama taking the oath, inauguration CNN photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Clintons, Obama, G.H.W. Bush, CNN

Clintons, Michelle Obama, G.H.W. Bush, inauguration CNN photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Hilary Clinton, CNN

Hilary Clinton, inauguration CNN photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Perlman, Montero, Ma, McGill, CNN

Itzhak Perlman, Gabriela Montero, Yo-Yo Ma, Anthony McGill, CNN photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

Photos Copyright 2009 by Katy Dickinson

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Distributing Family Stuff

My brothers and I are working out an equitable and peaceable way to distribute family stuff. Unfortunately, we are the descendants of many generations of craft workers, artists, and collectors, so there are a great many things to be considered: furniture carved by our Mother‘s Grandmother, mirrors and stained glass created by our Mother‘s Grandfather, our Father’s Grandfather’s iron train set, our Father’s Mother’s painted set of cider mugs with matching pitcher, paintings and drawings by our Mother, etc.

Having seen several excellent examples of nasty, greedy, and predatory behavior during estate distributions, we are seeking a better way to bestow heirlooms fairly. Our motivation comes from growing up during a family fight over an estate that started in 1990 and lasted for more than ten years; the quarrel about which descendant got what eventually outlasted the lifetime of the original executor.   We hope to avoid that experience in our generation. As our Father says: “I would rather burn it than fight about it.”

I am writing this out because when I searched the web for a good example, a property distribution process to model ours on, everything I found seemed to be associated with contentious divorces. I did not find any models in which the parties were assumed to be on speaking terms. My brothers and I each want some family stuff but we also want to preserve our good relationship more than we want any particular thing. I hope that the system we have developed over the last six years will be of use to other families who share our values.

Our parents are both living and have very generously and foresightedly agreed to distribute a selection of their family possessions in advance of their passing (which we hope will be many years in the future). My brothers and I have been in this distribution process for the last six years and have already sorted out who gets which of the larger pieces of furniture. In addition to getting a family chore done, we are learning more about each other and getting closer through these discussions. In this context “distribute” means transferring ownership but not necessarily the objects themselves. For example, my parents dining room table was given to me several years ago in one of our distributions; however, my parents will continue to use the table for their lifetimes.

At first, the distribution lists were annual and small, with just three or four heirlooms going to each of us. The distribution we are discussing now is our most ambitious, with fifty-four heirlooms to be sorted into three groups of eighteen. Here is an overview of the process we originally used:

  1. Our parents make a list of heirlooms for us to consider and distribute.  Usually, this means my having several discussions with our Mother since I live closest. One of my brothers lives at the other end of California and the other lives across the country, in Massachusetts.
  2. My brothers and I ask questions – how big is it? what condition is it in? where did it come from – is there any special meaning to it? Sometimes pictures are distributed.
  3. My brothers and I check with our spouses to collect their opinions.
  4. My brothers and I have a three-way phone call during which we decide who gets what. The call is only between the three of us, no spouses or parents.
  5. I tell our Mother what we decided in our call.
  6. Our Mother writes each of us a letter giving us the items.

With so many more items to distribute this time, it has been harder to come to a decision. Our Mother sent us a list in August we are still discussing. We had not seen many of the items, so the whole family took a house tour when my brothers visited during Christmas. We walked around the house we grew up in and asked our Mother to point to each item on her list. Last Saturday, my brothers and I had a preliminary phone call.

We discussed what “family furniture” meant to us. If our Mother bought it, does that still count as “family”? When our Great Grandparents’ early Victorian house on Circle Park in Knoxville, Tennessee, was torn down in 1964, our Grandmother removed the front doors. Eventually our Mother had the doors installed on her house in San Francisco. Are those antique doors “family furniture”?

My brothers asked me to sort the fifty four items into three groups prior to our next call. I decided to ignore the potential market value of the items and focus on three important categories: size, history, and who actually wants the thing. I created three groups of 18 items with roughly the same number of things in each of these categories in each group:

  1. Size: Small (antique toys, table clocks, the Cherokee hunting bow, the cider set), Medium (side tables, small chairs, stained glass panels and mirrors, our Great Grandfather’s glass case of stuffed birds), and Large (the front doors, our Father’s white leather arm chair, an 8′ tall hall mirror in a gold plaster frame, a huge wooden ice box, a set of balloon back chairs with seat cushions embroidered by our Great Grandmother).
  2. Special Family Origin: anything made by a family member, the bannister from the Circle Park house, our Great Grandmother’s wicker rocking chair, etc.
  3. Desireability: Anything that more than one of us expressed interest in during the preliminary phone call.

I sent the sorted groups to my brothers with the following proposed process:

  1. Step 1 – Before the Meeting – Review the groups, ask questions, talk with spouses, say if there are one or two “heart’s desire” items
  2. Step 2 – During the Meeting – Each of us picks a group (1, 2 or 3)
  3. Step 3 – Accept / acknowledge conditions to replace installed items (such as the front doors)
  4. Step 4 – Discuss trades. Other than trades, the group is distributed intact, where and as is.

I am curious to see how well this sorting worked and whether the distribution discussion goes better as a result.

Note: None of the items pictured are for sale. I do not provide pricing or sales advice for similar items. Please do not ask.

Images Copyright 2008-2016 by Katy Dickinson

13 June 2016: Images retaken and reposted, note added. 4 Feb 2021: photo links updated.

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My Daughter is Going to the Inauguration!

Jessica Dickinson Goodman, January 2009
photo: copyright 2008 Katy Dickinson

My daughter Jessica is participating in the
University Presidential Inaugural
Conference
(UPIC) in Washington, D.C. this week, so she will see
President Obama’s inauguration in person! Jessica was invited (along with thousands
of other kids) because she is an alumna of a
Congressional Youth Leadership
Council
(CYLC) program she attended in High School. She signed up for this
conference almost a year ago, long before we knew whose inauguration it would be.
You can see Jessica’s pictures and updates on her blog:

http://feelingelephants.wordpress.com/
.

Jessica took the bus to Washington DC yesterday bringing the camera she borrowed
from the CMU student newspaper, the
Tartan. So far, she has heard a
talk by General Colin Powell.
Tomorrow, they hear from former Vice President
Al Gore. Tuesday night after
the inauguration, she will attend an inaugural ball. The picture above is of
Jessica showing us her new ball gown (with the shawl I brought her from Bangalore)
before I packed it. It is so exciting to have a member of our family attend this
historical event!

Image Copyright 2009 by John Plocher

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After the RIF notice, before you leave

In the two months since
John Plocher
, my husband, was

laid off from Sun
, our family has made many changes. Only one of us is
commuting to work, so our 16-year-old son Paul and I spend more time
together during the drive between home and his High School, on the way to
my Sun office. Between job hunting activities, John has more time to cook, so we
eat out less. (John is an excellent cook so this is good!). The pets are happier
because John is home to give them more attention. Unless I have a meeting,
I work from home in the afternoons while Paul is doing homework. I have less
free time…

We have also found a good many things we wished we had thought to do
before John was laid off. Some of these were contained in a very helpful
unsigned email forwarded to John by someone who left Sun last year, called: “Things I Wish I’d Known The Day I Was RIFd”. (RIF stands for “Reduction in Force”, also known
as a lay off or restructuring.) However, we have also found some of the information
in that email is out of date.

I am writing this to share the benefit of our family’s recent experience with
Sun staff who may be caught up in the company restructuring announced on

14 November 2008
. Here are my opinions of some good actions to
consider after the termination notice but before you leave Sun and lose your
SunWeb access (and some actions to consider after). Some of these
actions may only be appropriate for Sun staff in California since circumstances
will differ from state-to-state, and country-to-country. Some actions –
like joining LinkedIn – are
good ideas whether you are staying or leaving. Your mileage may vary.
May contain nuts.

    1. Before your SunWeb access shuts down, print out copies of key records:

      – Current and last year paycheck history

      – Company training history

      – Stock option history and status

      – Health benefit elections

      – Vacation balance

      – Past annual performance review documents
    2. If you have not already done so, use your Employee Giving matching grant for the current year.
    3. If you have a blogs.sun.com account, post a brief and professional
      going away message including at least your LinkedIn reference. Your
      blogs.sun.com postings stay available after you are gone.
    4. Change your Sun voice mail outgoing message with a new professionally
      phrased reference to your home phone or other non-Sun phone number.

Resources which may help and actions to consider later:

    1. Sun provides some very good benefits to RIFed staff.
      Use any coaching services offered as part of your package
      (such as the excellent
      Right Management
      service). Let the service review your resume before
      you send it out. Join their networking groups.
    2. Think through your health, dental, vision, and life insurance choices
      and application timelines. Read your RIF package carefully. If the staff
      member who is laid off is the spouse of a continuing Sun staff member, talk
      with Human Resources (SunDial) soon about when and how you can initiate a
      “Qualifying Life Event Change” to provide insurance coverage to the RIFed
      spouse. We had to submit a “Life Insurance Evidence of Insurability (EOI) Form”
      which is still going through formal review by the insurance
      provider. It may take weeks before our coverage is reestablished. However,
      John’s other insurance benefits (health, dental, vision, etc.) were reestablished
      right after his employee coverage lapsed.
    3. Immediately locate all personal accounts, groups, billing, etc.
      that you have linked to your @sun.com email address, and change them
      to your personal email address.
    4. In California, you can apply for
      Unemployment Insurance
      from the day of your notification (while you may still have months yet to
      receive Sun paychecks).
      If you are asked by the California Employment Development Department, do not
      call money Sun provides you after the notification period “severance”.
      It is accurate to call it “payment to forestall legal action”.

      Here is Sun’s address and phone number which you will need for
      the EDD paperwork – from Sun’s 2008 Annual Report:

      Sun Microsystems, Inc.

      4150 Network Circle

      Santa Clara, CA 95054

      (650) 960-1300
    5. In the San Francisco Bay Area, there is a networking and lunch group
      called CSix where job hunters share ideas
      and leads. Similar formal or informal groups probably exist elsewhere.
    6. Buy a current-year copy of the book What Color Is Your
      Parachute?
      by Richard Nelson Bolles. This book is available in
      many languages (French, Korean, Russian, Turkish…). Also check out the
      resources on Dick Bolles’ web site:
      JobHuntersBible.Com
    7. Join LinkedIn – a social networking
      web site for professionals who want to extend their contacts. Be diligent
      in linking to your former Sun coworkers so that you don’t lose each other
      once you are no longer @sun.com. Use LinkedIn to recommend people you think
      highly of and ask them to recommend you. There are several LinkedIn Sun
      Alumni groups, including SUNAlumni. Sun Engineering SEED mentoring program
      alumni can join the SEED LinkedIn group.
    8. Join the
      Sun Microsystems Alumni Association

      “The network is the people”
    9. Consider other social networking sites such as
      Facebook
      which has several Sun Alumni groups, including:
      The Sun Microsystems Alumni Group,
      Sun Alumni on fb, (& several others).
      Plaxo
      is another good networking, address book site.
    10. Participate in
      Sun Alumni Blogs
    11. Make your own business cards so that you can easily tell contacts
      your new email and phone.
    12. Make doctor, dentist, and other health care appointments soon, so you
      are seen while you are still insured. Renew prescriptions that are close
      to refills. COBRA continuation insurance coverage isn’t always the same as
      the coverage you had before.
    13. Get a special job seeking email address at yahoo.com or
      gmail.com. Make it professional, not cute.
    14. A job searching and recruitment web site:
      http://www.dice.com/
      – “career website for technology and engineering professionals”
    15. A job searching web site:
      http://www.indeed.com/
      “to search job sites, newspapers, associations and company career pages”

Don’t lose touch with Sun people you care about. As John says, there are
only really 100 people in the Silicon Valley, everyone else is just there
to create traffic jams.

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