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Getting Ready for Christmas

My daughter Jessica arrived home a few days ago but soon left on a ski trip with her fiance Matt and his family. She comes back this afternoon. While she was briefly home, we went to the Great Dickens Christmas Fair at the Cow Palace. My mother and I also went to the Dickens Fair after Thanksgiving with my brother Pete and his family, so we have had quite the Victorian Christmas so far. (I have seen Gilbert and Sullivan’s Mikado twice this year!) I have also visited family, participated in the annual Sun Labs Christmas Cookie Exchange, and enjoyed the SunCaroler’s Menlo Park campus walking concert, the 1st annual Willow Glen Lions Holiday Party, and other delights of the season.

Dickens Fair

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Marley confronts Scrooge

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Pirate’s Cove

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Dark Garden Tableau

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Images Copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson and John Plocher

Pete and family at the Dickens Fair

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Ko-Ko and Katisha, The Mikado

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Ballena Bay Pewter, Dickens Fair

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SunCarolers annual walking concert

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Willow Glen Lions Party

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Sun Labs Cookie Party

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Family visit

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Uncle Wayne’s Workshop

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Paul, Lynda, Daniel (cousins)

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Paul and Jessica

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Paul and Jessica

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Jessica and Matt

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Christmas Prep

My family is mostly enjoying the preparations for Christmas. Today, I mailed the
last of six boxes full of gifts to distant friends and relations. Postage cost about $125- this year, even after using three USPS Flat Rate Boxes. The staff in Sun’s Menlo Park Campus mail room helped me with box sizes until we found the cheapest rates.

We don’t have a Christmas tree yet. We are thinking of buying a live tree and then donating it to Our City Forest for planting in January. We hosted the Silicon Valley Lines Model Railroad Club annual holiday party last week. Tonight, we host the
Spiral holiday dinner party. We will also host Christmas dinner, a party to celebrate my daughter Jessica’s 21st Birthday and Engagement, plus New Year’s Eve. In addition to our own celebrations, my husband John Plocher has been helping Santa Maria Urban Ministry (SMUM) with their holiday events and food distribution. I have been working on the St. Andrew’s Medical Assistance (SAMA) Christmas craft sale of goods from the Holy Land.

Busy times!

Waiting for food at SMUM

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Filling SMUM food boxes

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In the SMUM food line

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Office building window lights

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Neighborhood Deer Lights

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Our house – train lights with the moon

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Christmas night lights

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Same house during day

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Flat daytime Santa

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SAMA mother of pearl

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SAMA sale

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SAMA sale – camels

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SAMA sale

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SVL party train

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Christmas cockatiels

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SMUM Santa

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SMUM Christmas

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Images Copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson and John Plocher

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Daughter News – Engaged, Learning Arabic…

My clever and generally wonderful daughter Jessica just announced her engagement to be married to long-time boyfriend Matt Holmes (also a Junior, Matt studies at the College of William and Mary). Jessica is learning Arabic because she will be a student at CMU-Q (Carnegie Mellon University Quatar, in Doha) next semester. She will be home in about two weeks but then she is off on a family ski trip with the Holmes family. Jessica will be back from skiing just before Christmas and leaving for Doha during the 2nd week of the new year. Somewhere in there we need to hold her engagement party and celebrate her 21st birthday. Matt’s Mom and I are trying to work out party dates and arrangements now…

This will be a busy holiday season for our families!

8 December – Jessica’s story ended up on the blog for the company which sold the engagement rings:  Turtle Love Committee.

Jessica Dickinson Goodman in her Presidential Inauguration ball gown<br /> photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson Matt Holmes, Jessica Dickinson Goodman, Paul Dickinson Goodman at the Lair of the Golden Bear<br /> photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson Jessica Dickinson Goodman at the Lair of the Golden Bear<br /> photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson Jessica Dickinson Goodman and Matt Holmes at the Lair of the Golden Bear<br /> photo: copyright 2007 Katy Dickinson

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1007 Circle Park, Knoxville, Tennessee

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My mother, Eleanor Creekmore Dickinson, grew up at 1007 Circle Park Drive, Knoxville, Tennessee. This address does not exist any more. In the mid-1960’s, the whole neighborhood was torn down to make room for the University of Tennessee. You can check out Circle Park on Google Maps: the satellite view shows that Circle Park itself is still there but the round street around it is now called Circle Park Drive SW or Circle Park Drive. Originally, Circle Park was a private open space owned by the houses around it.

It is surprising how much of a presence a house that does not exist still has. 1007 Circle Park stood on its own acre of land. It had towers, secret passages (an air gap between inner and outer walls), and a teardrop-shaped carriage drive in the side yard with a porte-cochere to keep the rain off. There were stables and three servant quarters in the back. My great grandfather, Walter Van Gilder, bought the house around 1910. It was ornate Victorian in style, built around the time of the American Civil War.

After 1965, when Evelyn Van Gilder Creekmore and Robert Elmond Creekmore (my grandparents) knew that their home would be torn down, they took as much of the house with them as they could when they moved. This included doors, architectural trim, windows, banisters, and ironwork as well as furniture. Over the years those pieces have been installed in a variety of our family’s houses in California and Tennessee.

My husband, John Plocher just finished bolting the extremely heavy black iron fireback (featuring Poseidon and seahorses) into the exterior wall of his new workshop. In our house, we also have furniture carved by Ellen Bolli Van Gilder (my great grandma), a parlor screen with six paintings by my ancestress Mary Esperandieu, the newel post from the 1007 Circle Park staircase, a heater grate, a metal fire screen, several panels of stained glass and clear leaded glass, and a variety of mirrors that Walter Van Gilder made himself for 1007 Circle Park.

A photo below shows the front door of 1007 Circle Park on the day my mother married my father in 1952. In the picture, she is being escorted to the wedding by her father, R.E. Creekmore, flanked by my other grandparents (B.W.O. Dickinson and Gladys Grace Oakes Dickinson) and Ellen Bolli Van Gilder. The doors and stained glass panel in the back of that 1952 photo are the same doors and stained glass panel in my parents’ house in San Francisco in 2006, shown below with my mother at the door. Walter Van Gilder made the glass panel.

26 December 2012 blog – The Walter Van Gilder stained glass panel was installed in our home in Willow Glen, California, after being re-leaded and restored.

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Images Copyright 1938-2009 by Katy Dickinson and Eleanor Dickinson

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Cactus Fence

This is an update on my blog entry “Gardening Around the Homeless” dated 10 April 2006. We live on the bank of the Guadalupe River in Willow Glen, California. In 2006, I started to create an informal cactus fence to deter homeless transients from passing through or camping on our river bank. I am even more motivated to continue this project by two big river bank fires recently caused by homeless campers just upstream of our property. I have planted both Echinopsis and Opuntia (prickly pear), plus some Yucca for height; they are all growing well.

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After the RIF notice, before you leave

Family Update

In light of Sun’s current circumstances, here is an update of what I think is my most popular blog entry: “After the RIF notice, before you leave” (15 January 2009).

My husband, John Plocher, was laid off from Sun in November 2008 and (despite many interviews) is still looking for work. If anyone is looking to hire a senior software architect with extensive open source experience, please contact John!

This has been a wild year for our family. A few weeks after I wrote my “After the RIF notice..” blog entry, our son Paul ended up in emergency brain surgery. Paul recovered from that but still has constant terrible headaches. After finishing his Junior year at the hospital school, Paul is happy to be back in his regular High School for his Senior year. He plans to go to college next year. Having John off work during this time of medical adventures has been sortof a blessing.

Background

During the last year, we have found a good many things we wished we had thought to do before John was laid off. Additional items on this list were generously suggested to me from people who read my original 15 January blog entry. I eventually realized that official company sources are limited in what they can tell people. So, this unofficial list, while just based on limited observations and experience, turns out to have been of unique value to a variety of people. RIF stands for “Reduction in Force”, also known as a lay off or restructuring.

Here are my opinions of some good actions to consider after the termination notice but before you leave Sun and lose your SunWeb access (and some actions to consider after). Some of these actions may only be appropriate for Sun staff in California since circumstances may differ from state-to-state, and country-to-country. Some actions – like joining LinkedIn – are good ideas whether you are staying or leaving. Usual disclaimers apply. Your mileage may vary. May contain nuts.

First, if you have to leave Sun involuntarily, please accept my appreciation for your work. After  25 years of working here, I know that Sun is a great company. Even if I never knew or worked with you, I thank you for your contribution and I am sorry you have been laid off. Check out “A Tribute to Sun Microsystems” and remember your good times.

What to do immediately

  1. Before your SunWeb access shuts down, print out copies of key records:
    – Current and last year paycheck history
    – Company training history
    – Stock option history and status
    – Health benefit elections
    – Vacation balance
    – Past annual performance review documents
    Many of these records will just go away and be unavailable by any means soon after your last day in the office. You may need your training history for a future certification, and you will certainly need your vacation balance to apply for unemployment. This is your one and only chance to get copies.
  2. Immediately locate all personal internet identities (personal accounts, groups, billing, etc.) that you have communicating with your @sun.com email address, and change them to your personal email address. It is easy to set up a gmail account where you can continue to manage your billpay, website subscriptions and email lists after your Sun account goes away. Moving accounts will take time and those organizations may continue to send updates and confirmations to you @sun.com
    for days or even weeks. Start this move soon!
  3. Your Sun home directory will go away very shortly after your last office day. If you have personal email in your Sun home directory, move it or copy it to a home server or your personal laptop before your Sun home directory disappears. Gmail has a way to upload old messages from other email accounts. Don’t copy anything that belongs to Sun.
  4. If you have not already done so, use your Employee Giving matching grant for the current year. If you do not have a SunWeb account (and you will not), you cannot take advantage of this benefit even if you are laid off long before the end of the calendar year.
  5. Create a blogs.sun.com account or use your existing account to post a brief and professional going away message including at least your LinkedIn reference. Your blogs.sun.com postings stay available after you are gone.
  6. Change your Sun voice mail outgoing message with a new professionally phrased reference to your home phone or other non-Sun phone number.

What to do later

Resources which may help and actions to consider later:

  1. Sun provides some very good benefits to RIFed staff. Use any coaching services offered as part of your package (such as the excellent Right Management service). Let the service review your resume before you send it out. Join their networking groups.
  2. Think through your health, dental, vision, and life insurance choices and application timelines. Read your RIF package carefully. If the staff member who is laid off is the spouse of a continuing Sun staff member, talk with Human Resources (SunDial) soon about when and how you can initiate a “Qualifying Life Event Change” to provide insurance coverage to the RIFed spouse.
  3. File for Unemployment Insurance (UI) immediately. In most states there is at least a one week waiting period and some states may have more. In California, you can apply for Unemployment Insurance from the day of your notification (while you may still have months yet to receive Sun paychecks).
    If you are asked by the California Employment Development Department, do not call money Sun provides you after the 60-day WARN notification period “severance”. It is accurate to call it “payment to forestall legal action”.  More about the 60 days of WARN pay: The Worker Adjustment and Retraining Notification Act. I am told that while WARN is a type of “in lieu of” pay, WARN should NOT disqualify you from receiving UI benefits. For even more about this, read EDD’s Total and Partial Unemployment TPU 460.37.
    Here is Sun’s address and phone number which you will need for the EDD paperwork – from Sun’s 2008 Annual Report:

    Sun Microsystems, Inc.
    4150 Network Circle Santa Clara, CA 95054
    (650) 960-1300

  4. In the San Francisco Bay Area, there is a networking and lunch group called CSix where job hunters share ideas and leads. Similar formal or informal groups probably exist elsewhere.
  5. Review and update your resume. Create one or more cover letter templates. Review and confirm your references. (You need to know that Sun and other companies have a policy against giving job references.) Brush up on your interview skills.
  6. Buy a current-year copy of the book What Color Is Your Parachute? by Richard Nelson Bolles. This book is available in many languages (French, Korean, Russian, Turkish…). Also check out the resources on Dick Bolles’ web site: JobHuntersBible.Com
  7. Join LinkedIn – a social networking web site for professionals who want to extend their contacts. Follow LinkedIn’s advice to create your complete profile. Be diligent in linking to your former Sun coworkers so that you don’t lose each other once you are no longer @sun.com. Use LinkedIn to recommend people you think highly of and also ask them to recommend you. There are several LinkedIn Sun Alumni groups, including SUNAlumni. Sun Engineering SEED mentoring program alumni can join the SEED LinkedIn group.
  8. Join the Sun Microsystems Alumni Association “The network is the people”
  9. Consider other social networking sites such as Facebook which has several Sun Alumni groups, including: The Sun Microsystems Alumni Group, Sun Alumni on Facebook, and others. Facebook also has a “SEED Engineering Mentoring Program” Fan Page. Plaxo is another good networking, address book site.
  10. Participate in Sun Alumni Blogs
  11. Make your own business cards so that you can easily tell contacts your new email and phone. John and I like the designs at Overnight Prints.
  12. Make doctor, dentist, and other health care appointments soon, so you are seen while you are still insured. Renew prescriptions that are close to refills. The U.S.  COBRA continuation health insurance coverage isn’t always the same as the coverage you had before.
  13. Consider creating a special job seeking email address at yahoo.com or gmail.com. Make it professional, not cute.
  14. A job searching and recruitment web site which some people have recommended is http://www.dice.com/
    – “career website for technology and engineering professionals”
  15. A job searching web site which some people have recommended is http://www.indeed.com/ “to search job sites, newspapers, associations and company career pages”

Keep active and keep networking. Volunteer while looking for work. If you are in the San Francisco Bay Area and need a good cause, you are welcome to join John and me in helping inner city San Jose kids in the computer club at SMUM.

Don’t lose touch with Sun people you care about. As John says, there are only really 100 people in the Silicon Valley, everyone else is just there to create traffic jams.

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Fennel Finches

There are many reasons to grow your own fennel, if your garden is big enough. You can cook with it (eating both the seeds and the plant itself), and it is adored by tiger swallowtail butterflies and finches. Here in San Jose, California, I have a patch of fennel that grows taller than our garage. For the last month, a flock of finches has been shrieking and gobbling happily in our fennel. Once the plant has seeded and dried out, John cuts it to the ground, leaving the bulbs to grow again in the spring. Fennel is messy, propagates freely, and needs no water once established, so pick a big sunny spot for it to colonize.

I have been trying to take pictures of finches in my fennel but the birds fly away if I get too close (and from far away, my camera has trouble focusing on the tiny birds among the billowing green leaves and yellow seed heads).

fennel in San Jose, California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson finch in fennel, San Jose, California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson finch in fennel, San Jose, California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson finch in fennel, San Jose, California
photo: copyright 2009 Katy Dickinson

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