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Easter Egg Hunt

We held our family Easter Egg hunt last Sunday. This year, we had about twenty guests, nine of them children ages 2 to 17. All were experienced egg hunters. We followed our annual ritual:

  1. All hunters line up in order of age in the living room for the briefing.  Rule #1 is always “There are no eggs in the flower beds.”  Other rules address the sharpness of cactuses, the muddiness and egg-free condition of the riverbank, and indeed the general lack of eggs in any location except the back yard.
  2. Starting with the youngest child, each hunter in turn gets to pick a basket and an “advisor”.  Advisors are toy bunnies or birds who go on the hunt with the child instead of their parents.  Advisors serve to restrain parents from getting competitive and helping too much.
  3. We proceed to the kitchen door from which the children get to go into the yard, starting with the youngest then followed at one minute intervals by the rest of the kids.
  4. The hint poems for the gold and silver eggs are available for all kids and adults to consider.

This was my son Paul’s first year as Associate Bunny but even the Associate Bunny did not know where the gold and silver eggs were hidden.  The hint poems were:

Silver Egg

I see flowers purple and white
Though I am shaded from the light.
Please don’t eat me by mistake
When breakfast you come to take.

Gold Egg

I was here to show the way
Until Redda came to stay.
Chewed and broken, piled away
One last use I have today.

The two prize eggs were eventually found by adults: Susan found the gold egg (in a broken light fixture chewed up by our puppy, Redda), and David found the silver egg (tied in the branches of a blossoming orange tree). All of the regular eggs were plastic with candies inside. The kids particularly enjoyed finding eggs on and around WP 668, our backyard caboose.

After the hunt, the kids watched a video and played with computers and ate candy while the adults talked. When our guests left, John and I held our annual melting of the Peeps when we dispose of any of the vibrantly colored marshmallow candies which are left over from the party. (If you want to see a very odd website, check out The Lord of the Peeps.)

Pictures from our big day:

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Images Copyright 2010 by Katy Dickinson and John Plocher

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1,001 Post, Diabetes Society Camp Registration

This is my 1,001 blog post since 2005!

Last week, I started working as the Camp Registrar for the Diabetes Society in Willow Glen, California.  My friend Kat Carpenter (who at 20-ish is also an officer of the newly-chartered Willow Glen Lions Club) is the Camp Director.  I decided to take this position as a contractor not because of the glamor or great pay but because it is a job that needs doing and it will help get me thinking new thoughts and making new contacts.  After 26 years working for Sun Microsystems, I think a change in perspective will help me in transitioning to a new regular job.

The Diabetes Society has been through some serious financial troubles recently.  However, they are now reorganized and offering their summer camps for kids and teens with Type 1 Diabetes. Three of the camps are already full with waiting lists.  Usually camp registration starts in January but this year it opened in March. I have been getting the records set up, sorting out the checks and credit card payments, updating web pages, answering the Camp Department phone, and generally helping out. John has been supporting me and helping with the Diabetes Society’s IT infrastructure. My knowledge of Microsoft Excel and Word Mail Merge is increasing daily!

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Transitions for Young Adults with Neurocognitive Deficits

This coming Saturday, I will give my second talk at an Orion Academy‘s “Annual Seminar on Post-Secondary Transition Planning for Young Adults with Aspergers, NLD and other Neurocognitive Deficits”. The 4th Orion annual seminar will be held:

March 20, 2010
8:30 AM – 4 PM
Lafayette Park Hotel
Lafayette, CA

Here my presentation for this year: What Happens After College? – Kids with Neurocognitive Disability Working in Engineering and Computing”.

My talk of the same title from last year is linked to my 7 April 2009 blog entry. As the Mom of a 17-year-old son with social-cognitive disabilities, this seminar is of particular interest. I enjoyed speaking to Orion parents but I also learn a great deal from the other parents and presenters.  My son Paul just registered for the Spring Semester at Foothill College so that he can take his first college class (“Introduction to College and Accomodations”) during his last semester as a High School Senior. I am looking forward to hearing advice on the High School – College transition at Saturday’s seminar.

It was fun to refine and extend my slides from last year. The Benefits/Disadvantages of Neurocognitive Disability table gives me a new perspective every time I update it. (This was first published in my Living in a Cat World blog entry dated 15 May 2008.) I added a new picture of a geek at work (with his permission, of course), plus new geek-wear images from Think Geek and the XKCD Store. I was very pleased to find an excellent new quote by the famously-autistic and famously-successful Temple Grandin:

“Jane Goodall went in the back door to become an ethologist. That’s something I’ve thought about a lot, because people with autism usually have to go in the back door. We have trouble following the normal paths. We don’t do very well in interviews, which is a big problem for us, and a lot of autistic people also have extremely ‘uneven’ academic skills… I couldn’t be doing what I’m doing if there weren’t any back doors.”

(From Animals Make Us Human, 2009, by Temple Grandin)

29 Dec 2016: Links Updated

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Paul’s Sculptures

My 17-year-old son Paul loves creating sculptures. Starting last year, he built a ceramic and copper boat as an engagement present for his sister Jessica and her fiance Matt. The boat took much longer than planned because someone accidentally set something heavy on top of it when it was half-dry in the Paly art room. Before the boat, Paul created a Rauschenberg Combine interpretation box with copper wire (my Christmas present!). The blue box is supposed to be filled with small green glass bottles but someone recycled the original set, so we are looking for more.

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Expensive Valentine’s Day

Since I no longer work for Sun Microsystems, I am using my own home office equipment more. This week, everything overloaded and died. My old Motorola Razr cell phone had been limping along but then the battery started disconnecting randomly.  My husband John’s Razr gave up after it got washed. So, we started discussing new phones.  Luckily, we mentioned this at our monthly Spirals dinner.  Several of the couples passed around their cell phones and gave tutorials.  The two I liked best were the Motorola Droid and the Apple iPhone, with the iPhone feeling easier for me to use.

John and I went to the very crowded Oakridge Mall Apple Store on Valentine’s Day to buy a black and a white iPhone 3GS. Then, we went out to a lovely dinner at the Sienna Bistro in downtown Willow Glen.  John had a spectacular red bouquet by Mimi at Flower Flour on the table when we arrived.   (I gave John a turned and inlaid wooden bowl by William Broderson as his Valentine’s Day present.)

I consulted with my 17-year-old son Paul as to which two iPhone games he recommended.  I know he will be borrowing my phone to play games when we are driving, so he might as well help me pick.  We chose Crayon Physics Deluxe and Tetris for $5/each.

After I turned in my Sun Ray at Home system on my last day of work, I started using John’s 4-year-old MacBook Pro laptop to drive the big monitor that is cantilevered over my desk.  John started using his iMac for his primary computer because the laptop kept crashing. After the laptop crashed for the sixth time in one day for me, we went to the Apple web site and bought a new 13″ MacBook Pro.  The Magic Mouse and Wireless Keyboard arrived today, so the laptop itself should get here soon.  It already shipped from Singapore.  It is fun to have new electronics but I very much hope we are done for a while.  This stuff is expensive!

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Family Finance Review

One of the results of my being laid off by Sun Microsystems last month is that we are now reviewing and deciding what to change in a wide array of family finances.  This is not just about our household budget.  We are analyzing our insurance coverage (property, life, and health), wills, investments, etc.  For my last 26 years, many of these were tied into Sun’s benefits, retirement, stock and other offerings.  This review process is very time consuming but enlightening.  Because my lay off was at the time that Sun became Sun-Oracle, the company itself changed when my circumstances changed.  This means more than the JAVA stock symbol going away.

Most of the Oracle benefits providers are different.  For our family’s medical needs, in some cases the new offerings are better.  For example, Blue Cross this month radically lowered the amount they would reimburse for services by More Physical Therapy, where my son has been going several times a week to help his chronic headaches.  We got a remarkably frank letter from More PT dated 30 December 2009 that said:

…we were deeply concerned when Blue Cross notified us earlier this month that it is canceling its long-standing contract with all Preferred physical therapy providers in California effective January 31, 2010.  In place of the existing contract, Blue Cross is offering a new contractual arrangement that dramatically changes reimbursement methods… The new contract that Blue Cross is offering includes, among other things, a nearly 50% reduction in the allowable fee for each of the services we provide… In its letter regarding the proposed changes to our contract, Blue Cross stated that it hoped ‘these changes will be viewed by our therapy providers as exciting and positive.’  We hope you understand how offensive and ridiculous this statement is.  In addition, the Blue Cross website states, ‘Our mission is to improve the health of the people we serve.’ We would argue that what they are attempting to do to physical therapy providers and patients across the state will, without a doubt, achieve the opposite effect.

Changing back to United Healthcare (which was our family’s health insurance company before Blue Cross) will mean that more of our providers are in-network, so some of our medical costs may go down.   In the last week, have spent hours talking with Beck Grabau (Financial Advisor, Park Avenue Securities, 408-392-7818) about life insurance and investments.  This afternoon, we spent an hour with Bill Halper (Halper Insurance Services, 408-866-4470) discussing health insurance offerings and costs. I will be happy to get all of this sorted out so I can get to work full-time on my new job of finding a new job.

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Spring Dogs, Birds, Plants

It is still raining here in Northern California but Spring has definitely arrived. My daffodils and almond trees are in full bloom.  The finches are eating through a full tube of thistle seed a day on their feeder. Our energetic new 9-month-old puppy Redda and her patient 14-year old pack mate Juliet are having a wonderful time getting to know each other. Redda is still learning who is a friend and who she can bark at.  She has decided that the garden light shades make great chew toys.

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